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A good marriage means growing as a couple but also growing as individuals. This isn't easy

, marriage has always been difficult. Why then are we seeing so many divorces at this time? Yes, our modem social fabric is thin, and yes the permissiveness of society has created unrealistic expectations and thrown the family into disorder. But divorce is so common because people today are unwilling to exercise the self-discipline that marriage requires. They expect easy joy, like the entertainment on TV, the thrill of a good party.

Marriage takes some kind of sacrifice, not dreadful self-sacrifice of the soul, but some level of compromise. Some of one' s fantasies, some of one' s legitimate desires have to be given up for the value of the marriage itself. "While all marital partners feel shackled(受束缚) at times, it is they who really choose to make the marital ties into confining chains or supporting bonds", says Dr. Whitaker. Marriage requires sexual, financial and emotional discipline. A man and a woman cannot follow every impulse, cannot allow himself or herself to stop growing or changing.

A divorce is not an evil act. Sometimes it provides salvation(拯救)for people who have grown hopelessly apart or were frozen in patterns of pain or mutual unhappiness. Divorce can be like the first cut of the surgeon' s knife, a step toward new health and a good life. On the other hand, if the partners can stay past the breaking up of the romantic myths into the development of real love and intimacy, they have achieved a work as amazing as the greatest cathedrals(教堂)of the world. Marriages that do not fail but improve, that persist despite imperfections, are not only rare these days but offer a wondrous shelter in which the face of our mutual humanity can safely show itself.

According to the author, an ideal marriage life______.

A.requires considerable sacrifice on both partners

B.requires that the couple be emotionally involved

C.allows for the growth of the husband and wife as a couple and as two individuals

D.is only an illusion in today's society

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第1题
The happiness in his marriage did not mean he () tragedy: He lost his daughter Katia 10 years later.

A.be immune to

B.be let through

C.be immune from

D.be let out

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第2题
According to the text, which type of behavior. is NOT expected of a man by society? ______
.

A.Ending his marriage without good reason.

B.Spending too much time with his friends.

C.Complaining about his marriage trouble.

D.Going out to ballgames too often.

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第3题
Chinese wedding tea ceremony is a tradition that dates back to many centuries ago and is
still widely practiced at modern Chinese weddings on the wedding day,either at home or at the banquet.It is an official ritual to introduce the newlyweds to each other’s family,and is also a way to show respect and appreciation (感谢) to their parents. Tea is likely served also because it is the national drink of China.

When the tea itself is served,the newlyweds kneel in front of their parents,serving tea to both sides of parents,as well as elder close relatives. Parents give their words of blessing and gifts to the newlyweds. During tea presentation,a “good luck woman” would say lucky phrases to bless the newlyweds and the parents. This “good luck woman” should be someone who is blessed with

a good marriage,healthy children and husband,and living parents.

Newlyweds also present tea to each other,raising the tea cups high to show respect before presenting to each other.

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() 1. Tea ceremony is a way to show respect and appreciation to the newlyweds’ parents. () 2. Tea ceremony is only practiced at the banquet.

() 3. The “good luck woman” must be the one with a good marriage,healthy children and

husband,and living parents.

() 4. During tea presentation,the newlyweds will receive gifts from their parents.

() 5. Tea ceremony tradition has a long history of several hundred years.

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第4题
- David, you haven't been yourself lately.I mean, you've been losing your tem
per over nothing.

-().

A.Really? I have good reasons.I haven't been getting much sleep, either.

B.I'm sorry.I shouldn't have blown up like that.

C.You'd better not push yourself too hard, or you'11 get sick.

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第5题
In the classic marriage vow(誓约),couples promise to stay together in sickness and in
In the classic marriage vow(誓约),couples promise to stay together in sickness and in

health. But a new study finds that the risk of divorce among older couples rises when the wife—not the husband— becomes seriously ill.

"Married women diagnosed with a serious health condition may find themselves struggling with the impact of their disease while also experiencing the stress of divorce," said researcher Amelia Karraker. Karraker and co-author Kenzie Latham analyzed 20 years of data on 2,717 marriages from a study conducted by Indiana University since 1992. At the time of the first interview, at least one of the partners was over the age of 50.

The researchers examined how the onset(发生)of four serious physical illnesses affected marriages. They found that, overall, 31% of marriages ended in divorce over the period studied. The incidence of new chronic(慢性的)illness onset increased over time as well, with more husbands than wives developing serious health problems. "We found that women are doubly vulnerable to marital break-up in the face of illness," Karraker said. "They're more likely to be widowed, and if they're the ones who become ill, they're more likely to get divorced."

While the study didn't assess why divorce is more likely when wives but not husbands become seriously ill, Karraker offers a few possible reasons. "Gender norms and social expectations about caregiving may make it more difficult for men to provide care to sick spouses," Karraker said. "And because of the imbalance in marriage markets, especially in older ages, divorced men have more choices among prospective partners than divorced women."

Given the increasing concern about health care costs for the aging population, Karraker believes policymakers should be aware of the relationship between disease and risk of divorce.

"Offering support services to spouses caring for their other halves may reduce marital stress and prevent divorce at older ages," she said. "But it's also important to recognize that the pressure to divorce may be health-related and that sick ex-wives may need additional care and services to prevent worsening health and increased health costs."

91.What can we learn about marriage vows from the passage_____

A.They may not guarantee a lasting marriage.

B.They are as binding as they used to be.

C.They are not taken seriously any more.

D.They may help couples tide over hard times.

92.What did Karraker and co-author Kenzie Latham find about elderly husbands_____

A.They are generally not good at taking care of themselves.

B.They can become increasingly vulnerable to serious illnesses.

C.They can develop different kinds of illnesses just like their wives.

D.They are more likely to contract serious illnesses than their wives.

93.What does Karraker say about women who fall ill_____

A.They are more likely to be widowed.

B.They are more likely to get divorced.

C.They are less likely to receive good care.

D.They are less likely to bother their spouses.

94.Why is it more difficult for men to take care of their sick spouses according to Karraker_____

A.They are more accustomed to receiving care.

B.They find it more important to make money for the family.

C.They think it more urgent to fulfill their social obligations.

D.They expect society to do more of the job.

95.What does Karraker think is also important_____

A.Reducing marital stress on wives.

B.Providing extra care for divorced women.

C.Stabilizing old couples' relations.

D.Making men pay for their wives, health costs.

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第6题
A number of researchers have examined the variables/strategies that affect students' learn
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What makes a 'good' language learner 'good', and what makes a 'poor' language learner 'poor'? What does this imply for the teaching of language in the Hong Kong context? These are the central questions of this assignment. The existing body of research attributes the differences between language learners to learner variables and learner strategies, Learner variables include such things as differences in personality, motivation, style, aptitude and age (Ellis, 1986: chap 5) and strategies refer to "techniques, approaches, or deliberate actions that students take in order to facilitate the learning and recall of both linguistic and content area information" (Chamot, 1987: 71). It is important to note here that what we are considering is not the fact that language learners do and can learn, but why there should be such variations in speed of learning, ability to use the target language, and in achieving examination grades, areas which generally lead to the classification of students as being either 'good' or 'poor'.

Learner variables and strategies have been the focus of a number of research projects, (O'Malley et al, 1985, Oxford, 1989). However, to the best of my knowledge, this area has not been researched in Hong Kong classrooms. Since I am a teacher of English working in Hong Kong, gleaning a little of what learner variables and strategies seem to work for local students seems to be a fruitful area of research.

In discussing learner variables and strategies, we have to keep in mind the arbitrary nature of actually identifying these aspects. As the existing research points out, it is not possible to observe directly qualities such as aptitude, motivation and anxiety. (Oxford, 1986) We cannot look inside the mind of a language learner and find out what strategies, if any, they are using. These strategies are not visible processes. Also, as Naiman and his colleagues (1978) point out, no single learning strategy, cognitive style. or learner characteristic is sufficient to explain success in language learning. The factors must be considered simultaneously to discover how they interact to affect success or failure in a particular language learning situation.

Bearing these constraints in mind, the aim of this assignment is to develop two small scale studies of the language learners attempting to gain an overall idea of what strategies are in use and what variables seem to make a difference to Hong Kong students.

In paragraph 2 learner variables, and strategies are defined by reference to other writers

A.because these writers are authorities in the field and these are recognized as important concepts

B.because these writers are authorities in the field and these are recognized as important definitions

C.because the present author is not sure what these terms mean

D.because the present author wishes to redefine the scope of research in this area

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第7题
As with divorce, marriage rates vary with race and______.

A.ethnic

B.ethic

C.ethnicity

D.ethics

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第8题
The underlined part in the sentence “their marriage may be on the rocks” can be parap
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第9题
“My daughter____in1997,”she told her friend.

A.did marriage

B.got married

C.had married

D.married

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第10题
The advantages and disadvantages of a large population have long been a subject of dis
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1. A large population may mean _________.

A.higher productivity, but a lower average income

B.ower productivity, but a higher average income

C.higher productivity and a higher average income

D.ower productivity and a lower average income

2.A large population may offer more scope for the development of _________.

A.economy

B.transportation

C.extensive cultivation

D.Agriculture

3.In highly industrialized countries, unemployment may result from _________.

A.a decreasing birthrate

B.an increasing birthrate

C.a stable birthrate

D.a birth control program

4.What may the government of a developed country prefer?()

A.A rapidly increasing population.

B.A rapidly decreasing population.

C.A slowly increasing population.

D.A slowly decreasing population.

5.Why is it difficult to carry out a worldwide birth control program?()

A.Because it will do harm to the national economy in most countries.

B.Because it will lead to complex social problems in developing countries.

C.Because people are unwilling to practice birth control.

D.Because different governments have different opinions.

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第11题
In order to persuade his daughter to ________ the marriage, the father quoted statisti

A.put off

B.consult with

C.take stock of

D.refer to

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